It’s Not Babysitting If It’s Your Child

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If I had a dollar for every time I heard a mum tell me their ex refers to looking after their children as “babysitting”… well, let’s just say I’d be writing this blog from a beach in Fiji. Here’s the thing: it’s not babysitting if it’s your child. Babysitting is when a neighbour’s teenager watches your kids while you go out. Babysitting is when Grandma offers to have them for the afternoon. Babysitting is a job you do for someone else. Parenting is what you do for your child.Continue Reading →

How Better Lawyer Communication Can Save You

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Navigating the legal landscape during a divorce or separation can feel overwhelming, but having a skilled lawyer by your side can make all the difference. However, one crucial factor often overlooked is the importance of effective communication with your lawyer. A smooth, productive relationship with your lawyer can not only make the legal process more manageable but also help ensure the best possible outcome for your case. Here’s how to make that happen.Continue Reading →

Navigating the Shock of an Unexpected Divorce Request

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An unexpected request for divorce can feel like an emotional earthquake. In an instant, the world as you know it changes, leaving behind a whirlwind of shock, confusion, and even a sense of betrayal. This initial stage of separation can be one of the toughest, but there are ways to navigate through the upheaval and regain a sense of balance. Here are practical strategies to help you cope and regain control during this turbulent time.Continue Reading →

Five Ways To Prepare For Mediation Like A Pro

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Mediation can be a crucial step in your divorce or co-parenting journey, offering a chance to resolve conflicts without the need for lengthy court battles. As a single mum, preparing for mediation can feel overwhelming, but with the right approach, you can feel empowered, organised, and ready to reach solutions that work for both you and your children. Below are five essential tips to help you prepare for a successful mediation process.Continue Reading →

Rebuild Your Identity Now and Thrive After Divorce

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Heartbreak has a way of shaking us to our core, but it also presents an opportunity – an invitation to redefine who we are, to discover strength we never knew we had, and to forge a path forward that’s guided by resilience, purpose, and self-love. For many women, especially those navigating life after divorce or separation, this can be a pivotal time of transformation. While it may seem impossible in the moment, heartbreak can open the door to profound self-discovery and growth.Continue Reading →