Category: Divorce Coaching

The three things a single mum should let go of to receive this one important thing

Being a single mum can feel like you’re juggling a hundred balls in the air while someone keeps sneaking in more when you’re not looking. You’re navigating parenting, finances, emotional ups and downs, and maybe even co-parenting with an ex who isn’t always easy to get along with.

It’s exhausting.

And while we’d all love to have everything neat, predictable, and under control, the truth is, there are some things you simply can’t control as a single mum. The good news? You don’t need to. Once you shift your energy to what you can influence, life feels a whole lot lighter.

Here are three things you can’t control, and what to do instead.Continue Reading →

How to Make 2026 the Year You Truly Thrive

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If you’ve found yourself starting 2026 feeling exhausted, stretched thin, or even wondering how you’re going to make it through another year as a single mum, you’re not alone, my friend. Surviving takes a lot of strength. But here’s the truth: surviving doesn’t have to be your final destination. If you feel like you’ve been surviving for way too long, and just gripping on by the tips of your fingernails (which is how it’s always going to be at times), maybe this year can be the year you start to shift from just “getting by” to actually thriving.

Thriving doesn’t mean everything is perfect. It means you’re building a life where you feel more grounded, more confident, and more in control – even when challenges show up (hello ex!). Here’s your roadmap to move from survival mode to thriving in 2026.Continue Reading →

It’s Not Babysitting If It’s Your Child

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If I had a dollar for every time I heard a mum tell me their ex refers to looking after their children as “babysitting”… well, let’s just say I’d be writing this blog from a beach in Fiji. Here’s the thing: it’s not babysitting if it’s your child. Babysitting is when a neighbour’s teenager watches your kids while you go out. Babysitting is when Grandma offers to have them for the afternoon. Babysitting is a job you do for someone else. Parenting is what you do for your child.Continue Reading →

How Better Lawyer Communication Can Save You

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Navigating the legal landscape during a divorce or separation can feel overwhelming, but having a skilled lawyer by your side can make all the difference. However, one crucial factor often overlooked is the importance of effective communication with your lawyer. A smooth, productive relationship with your lawyer can not only make the legal process more manageable but also help ensure the best possible outcome for your case. Here’s how to make that happen.Continue Reading →

Navigating the Shock of an Unexpected Divorce Request

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An unexpected request for divorce can feel like an emotional earthquake. In an instant, the world as you know it changes, leaving behind a whirlwind of shock, confusion, and even a sense of betrayal. This initial stage of separation can be one of the toughest, but there are ways to navigate through the upheaval and regain a sense of balance. Here are practical strategies to help you cope and regain control during this turbulent time.Continue Reading →