Six Ways to Beat Valentine’s Day Single Mum Loneliness

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Valentine’s Day is “supposed” to be about love, connection, and romantic gestures. But if you’re a single mum navigating life after separation or divorce, it can feel like a cruel reminder of what’s missing. Suddenly, the shops are full of roses, chocolates, and couples holding hands, and instead of feeling celebrated, it might be a reminder of what’s been lost. You might feel invisible, forgotten, or painfully alone.

First of all, let me say this: you are not alone in feeling this way. So many women quietly dread this day, even if they put on a brave face. And while it’s natural to feel sadness or longing, Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be something you simply “get through.” You can approach it in a way that feels nurturing and even empowering. Here’s how:Continue Reading →

How to Survive Hosting a Kids’ Party With Your Ex

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Birthday parties are meant to be fun, right? Balloons, cake, games, happy kids… easy. But throw your ex into the mix, and suddenly that “two-hour celebration” feels more like an Olympic endurance event you are DREADING.

If you’re a single mum navigating co-parenting, chances are you’ll eventually face the joint birthday party. And while it might sound daunting (and let’s be honest, sometimes it is), it can be done without tears, tantrums, or one of you hiding in the bathroom.

I have had to do this twice during my daughter’s lifetime – her first birthday party, which we co-hosted, and it went surprisingly well considering our relationship. And her 6th birthday, which I invited my ex to.

Here are my top tips to survive hosting a kids’ party with your ex – and maybe even enjoy it.Continue Reading →

Your Pep Talk for Christmas Morning

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Christmas morning. For some, it’s picture-perfect – matching pyjamas, laughter, presents under the tree, and a family gathered around the table. For others, especially single mums, it can look and feel very different.

Maybe the kids aren’t with you this year. Maybe you’re juggling family tensions, finances stretched thin, or carrying the weight of doing it all on your own. Maybe you’re just exhausted.

If that’s you, this is your Christmas morning pep talk.Continue Reading →

Dear Santa, This is What Single Mums are Really Asking For

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Dear Santa,

It’s been… well, a year.
A year of juggling school runs, saturday sports, nappy changes, work, trying to keep everyone happy, late-night laundry, unexpected bills, and the occasional cry in the supermarket car park.

And before you ask, yes – I’ve tried to be good.
Not perfect. Not “Pinterest mum” good. But the kind of good that means my kids feel loved, safe, and seen – even when dinner was Weet-Bix and bedtime was late.

So this year, instead of asking for shiny new appliances or diamond earrings (though, if you’re offering…), here’s my real wish list…Continue Reading →

Your Christmas Co-Parenting Survival Plan (And How to Protect Your Peace)

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Christmas can be one of the most magical times of the year. However, if you’re co-parenting, it can also be one of the most stressful experiences. Between navigating shared custody, organising holiday handovers, and managing your own emotions, it can feel like a pressure cooker waiting to explode.

If this is your first Christmas as a single mum, or even if you’ve been doing it for years, know this: you’re not alone. Many mums feel the weight of wanting to “make it perfect” for their kids while also dealing with the reality of negotiating with an ex who may not make things easy.

Here are six practical ways to cope and even find peace during the holiday season.Continue Reading →