Author: Julia Hasche

It’s Not Babysitting If It’s Your Child

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If I had a dollar for every time I heard a mum tell me their ex refers to looking after their children as “babysitting”… well, let’s just say I’d be writing this blog from a beach in Fiji. Here’s the thing: it’s not babysitting if it’s your child. Babysitting is when a neighbour’s teenager watches your kids while you go out. Babysitting is when Grandma offers to have them for the afternoon. Babysitting is a job you do for someone else. Parenting is what you do for your child.Continue Reading →

Dear New Single Mum: Here’s What I’d Tell You

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Having Sebastian this year really brought me back to what life was like when my daughter was the same age. Her dad and I had split up when she was a newborn and having an infant again, this time as a partner, was a HUGE point of reflection for me.

It really got me thinking… what would I say to that version of myself, knowing what I know now? What would I do differently if I could go back?

Here are five things I’d do differently if I was a single mum at the beginning again.Continue Reading →

10 Single Mum Holiday Ideas

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One of the things that brought me the most joy whilst raising my daughter on my own were the holidays we took together. Okay, some were more stressful than others 🙃🤨 but overall we had some amazing times and I’m grateful that I have those memories from my eight years as a single mum.

I know for a lot of women, the idea of going on a holiday solo with your kids can bring around some fears, so with our long school holidays just around the corner, I wanted to share some holiday (or, “vacation”, for my US friends) ideas for you take alone with your little ones.

Here are ten ideas to inspire your next single mum holiday – whether you’re ready to book flights tomorrow or just dreaming from the couch between snack requests.Continue Reading →

The Dating Dilemma: How to Know If You’re Ready for Love Again

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Navigating life after separation or divorce is a journey full of emotions, self-discovery, and adjustment. When the dust settles, you might find yourself wondering: Am I ready to date again?

It’s a question many single mums wrestle with, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Jumping back into the dating world can feel exciting, overwhelming, or even downright terrifying. Whether you’re feeling pressured by others or contemplating the idea on your own, here’s how to know if you’re truly ready to open your heart to love again.Continue Reading →

How to Deal with Heartbreak: Finding Strength in the Struggle

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Heartbreak is one of life’s most challenging experiences, especially when you are parenting at the same time. It’s okay to feel hurt, angry, or even lost for a while – these feelings are part of the healing process. But there are steps you can take to begin moving forward with grace and strength.

Here are some thoughts on how to deal with heartbreak and begin your journey toward healing.Continue Reading →