Many single mums may struggle with self-stigma, internalising the shame they often face from society. This can significantly impact their self-esteem and mental health. They also often have to put self-care aside to focus on raising their children, working, and caring for the home, which can make negative self-perceptions more intense. However, you still deserve to feel and look beautiful as a single mum.
One of the best ways to boost your confidence and help you feel better about yourself is through fashion and style. You don’t need to change your wardrobe completely; investing in the right items can elevate your usual looks, no matter how simple they are. Whether you’re spending the day out with the kids, running errands, or getting back into the dating scene, these pieces can help take your look to the next level:
Sunglasses
Sunglasses are a quick and stylish way to elevate any outfit. You can explore a vast array of fun and chic styles to suit your preferences, and they offer UV protection to keep your eyes safe from the sun’s harsh rays. Luxury sunglasses can be a worthwhile splurge, as they come in many timeless and elegant frames and are built with durable, high-quality materials that can make the shades last for ages. Classic models like the Burberry BE3147 or Prada PR 24XS can instantly add a touch of glamour to the simplest of looks.
You can easily throw them on when heading to your child’s sports games or when spending a day at the park. Many luxury shades also come with the option for polarised lenses, which help reduce glare. These lenses are great if you and your kids often spend time at the beach or love playing in the snow, as sunlight reflected on water and snow can be harsh on the eyes.
A shacket
If you feel your outfit needs an extra pop, throw on a shacket (a shirt jacket) for more flair. It’s a great piece for layering, as it isn’t as bulky or warm as a coat, but it’s not as flimsy as a regular shirt either. It can provide warmth for chillier days out with the kids, and you can shrug it off if the temperature gets warmer; there’s no need to carry around a heavy coat or jacket that can make it hard to carry items or chase after the kids.
If you’re worried about durability and longevity, a shacket from a sustainable brand that focuses on making clothes to be cherished can ensure you can keep this piece in rotation for longer. Maggie Marilyn’s early morning shacket is designed to get better the more you wear it. The wool is slightly rough when first worn but relaxes and softens over time and with more uses. With extra care, you can wear it for ages and maybe even pass it down to your child once they get older!
Comfortable sneakers
As a single mum, you spend a lot of time on the go. Running errands, dropping and picking your kids off at school, attending your kid’s events, shopping for groceries, and more keep you busy and on your feet. A good pair of sneakers is essential for any single mom on the go. Sneakers that are both stylish and comfortable can make you look and feel your best all day long.
If you’re looking for a more stylish everyday shoe that’s just as comfortable and supportive for your feet as regular walking or running shoes, the sneakers from Cariuma are a great choice. They come in a more classic sneaker style but with the perks of an athletic shoe. The OCA Low Off-White Canvas style is simple yet chic and is praised highly for being comfortable. It can be paired with all kinds of outfits, so you can save time instead of going through all your shoes to find the right ones for your clothes. Slip them on when heading to your kids’ school, work, shopping at the mall, or brunch with friends.
P.S. DID YOU KNOW?
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